If You Think Faith Is About the Rules

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faith about the rules

Are you a rule keeper or a rebel? All of us have a natural tendency towards one or the other, perhaps according to the circumstances of a situation. I have a confession to make- I’m a rule keeper. A rule follower. Someone who actually likes the rules and gets upset when others break them. My husband will tell you: I’m the one who always puts the grocery cart back in the parking lot corral, and then wishes the carts could be organized alphabetically. Rules often bring order to an otherwise chaotic world, in my humble opinion. When you are a rule follower, it’s easy to think poorly of the rebels in the crowd.

If you think faith is all about the rules, you’re right, to some degree.

But it can be a bad thing to be all about the rules- if you are following the wrong rules.

Jesus Broke the Rules

Can you imagine what it would have been like to follow Jesus around while he was on the earth? To be one of his disciples and watch the miracles happen before your very eyes? One of my favorite miracle stories in the Bible is the man born blind who Jesus healed.

The religious leaders of the day had difficulty understanding Jesus. Since they didn’t believe he was the long-awaited Messiah, everything he did was scrutinized by them. How could he perform these miracles? And yet the thing that baffled them the most? He had healed a man, gasp, on the Sabbath.

Some of the Pharisees said, “This man is not from God, for he does not keep the Sabbath.”  John 9:16

How could he have the audacity to heal a man on the Sabbath? Didn’t he know the rules? The rules were that no work should be done on the Sabbath; it was a day of rest, dictated by a list of do’s and don’t’s. Don’t carry things beyond a certain number of paces. Do nothing that would gain attention. The list included not only the laws passed down from the Old Testament, but also the interpretations of those laws as understood by the law keepers of the day.  But the Pharisees were missing the biggest point.

Now I’ve heard sermons about how they missed the point that Jesus broke the rules for a reason. The man was more important than the law. And that’s true.

And I’ve read messages and articles about how the Pharisees couldn’t see past the man to the message of Jesus. And that’s true too. They were trying to put God in a box; nothing can hold him.

But the biggest lesson I’ve learned from this beautiful miracle?

Jesus Changed the Rules

In another situation where the religious rule keepers of the day tried to test Jesus, a question of epic proportions was asked:

“Which commandment is the most important of all?” Mark 12:28

Oh mercy. It’s all about the rules, bout the rules, bout the rules. 

Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:29-31

Essentially Jesus said, “The rules have changed. I’m here now.”

The rules under Jesus were much shorter. Rather than volumes of words that covered everything from which animals to sacrifice for which sins and not to wear two pieces of clothing made from different types of fabric, the law was boiled down to two simple rules.

Love God.

Love others.

If You Ever Think Faith Is About the Rules

I’m really thankful for my Christian heritage, as I grew up with wonderful Christian parents in a small community. But honestly, I missed something along the way, because when I reached my late teens and early twenties, my faith was really all about the rules. How often I needed to go to church, how many times a week I was supposed to be reading my Bible, how often should I be praying, whether or not it was ok for a woman to wear pants, how long my skirts had to be, the list could go on and on. The Christian college I attended boasted of an extremely long list of rules and I typically kept them to the letter as much as I could.

I was so caught up in keeping the rules and checking off lists that I completed missed out on the fact that Jesus changed the rules. To live out my faith in Christ, all I needed to do was love God and love others. Everything else would fall into place. No one could dictate a set of rules that would guide me. Why?

The Holy Spirit Rules Our Hearts

When Jesus left this world, he did not leave us alone. If you’ve accepted Christ as your way to Heaven, then the Holy Spirit is living inside of you; showing you the way to love God and love others. He is the one who guides us daily and he is the one who empowers us to live out those two simple rules of loving God and loving others.  I don’t know what the Holy Spirit impresses on someone else; therefore I can’t know their life rules. I only know what he whispers to me as he holds my heart reins, guiding me each day.

If you’ve ever thought that faith in God is about the rules, you’re right, but the rules are no longer listed out on a piece of parchment. They are scripted into our hearts as we read God’s Word and listen to his voice.

Living out faith in Christ doesn’t mean abiding by the rules of our minds.

Living out faith in Christ means abiding in the Ruler of our hearts.

Please tell me I’m not alone here. Have you ever gotten caught up in trying to keep all the rules?

Rachel

8 Comments

  1. This message was SO needed for me today! Thank you so much.

  2. Mfonobong Augustus says:

    I too was caught up. Most believers are caught up. About rules keeping, Colossians 2:22 says “which all are to perish with the using; after the commandments and doctrines of men?” Keeping rules lead to self righteousness. Before GOD, our righteousness is like a filthy rag. May GOD help us soak in and enjoy His grace and mercy, through which we were saved and through which we can make heaven.

  3. Wow! I thank the Holy Spirit for always confirming things. I must admit , I am also a person who always follow rules and who always want people to do certain things the certain way.
    I am also greatful that I subscribed to this blog. Tonight I am preaching to the legalist about the Law. The Scripture is in Deuteronomy 4:1, 5-10 and Matthew 5:17-20.
    Thank you Rachel, and to all of you that commented on this blog. You have just ignited something in me that I did not notice.

    May God Bless you all
    Kholi

  4. Beautifully put Rachel.

  5. Susen Cusenbary says:

    Rules? I taught school for years! But rules put the teacher in charge of enforcement, as well as challenge the rule-breaker to think up something not on that endless list. Before my second year of teaching, it occurred to me that the aim of that list of rules was to establish a classroom environment for learning. To encourage this goal, I made it possible for kids to learn self-discipline, not teacher imposed discipline. I modeled what it looked like to be a student-ready-to-learn (my one “rule”)–curiosity, enthusiasm, self-discipline, doing my best, considering others. And I expected students to respond in a like manner, checking themselves when necessary. It was a process. It took perseverance. Results took time. But my efforts weren’t invested in mind games over chewing gum or staying seated.

    I feel empathy for the Pharisees. They were the best of the best at following, interpreting and enforcing all those rules. They were so invested in their roles that they couldn’t see past what The Law was supposed to help them and their people become. Poor old Nicodemus with his sniggle of doubt had to visit Jesus under the cloak of night. He was so literal that his reply to Jesus’ message of rebirth was to say, “Surely [man] cannot enter a second time into his mother’s womb to be born!” (John 3:4).

    God started with literal-minded people who prayed and sacrificed even their own children to whatever god of the moment they thought they needed to appease. He gave them The Law to set them apart in order to teach them how to worship the One True and Living God. Then He sent Jesus to help all of us with the next step, just as Rachel described: “two simple rules: Love God. Love others.” And with the help of the Holy Spirit and through our love of God, we can “love others” even when “others” aren’t acting very lovable.

    Blessings to all, rule followers and rule breakers alike,
    Susen

  6. Thank you for this, Rachel!

  7. Beverly S says:

    Rachel, I relate very closely to this post. My life was all about the rules, especially what others should or shouldn’t do. My rules included not only morals & religion, but even went to hairstyles, make-up and clothing! Then my life fell apart, and for two years I was in a deep pit of despair. I was unable to follow rules, it was all completely beyond my control. Then came more than a decade of trying to rebuild my life, and getting back to my rules. Again, my life broke apart, only this time it was spiritually. My faith was intact, but my “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts” were strewn about in complete chaos. It took several years of struggle, confusion and frustration, but finally God opened my eyes to the absurdity of my rules. I was liberated, set free when I understand that it has nothing whatsoever to do with me, what I should, what I shouldn’t: it is all about God and about the grace He so freely gives, so undeserved by any of us. It has taken time to let go of my rules habit, but it gets easier every day.

    The truly marvelous effect is that when I interact with others without measuring them against my rules, I can see them more clearly through the eyes of God.

  8. This was great! I’m a rule girl too. For far too long I was caught up in legalism. I’m ashamed to say that I have been very guilty of being self-righteous and have looked down on others. I’m so thankful that God has softened my heart. Over the past few years one of my heartfelt prayers has been for God to soften my heart and to help me see others through HIS eyes, the way he sees them. Now instead of seeing “rule-breakers” I am slowly starting to see people who need grace and forgiveness just like me (and I’m reminded that I’m not exempt from that). I’m starting to see through eyes of compassion instead of disgust. I’m starting to truly understand: Love God, Love People. Thank you for your post–it’s nice to know I’m not the only one with an obsession for rules! (I’ve been told it’s also a result of being a first-born!) 🙂

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